None of My Friends Are Becoming Legendary Directors
"None of my friends are becoming legendary directors, and I'm getting concerned." - Sthuthukile Biyela, 2025 It’s been a few years since Issa Rae coined the term 'networking across' in an interview and changed my brain chemistry forever. As a young creative, I was prone to watching inspirational videos of my idols: Toni Morrison, Maya Angelou and, um... Shonda Rhimes. While their words stoked a fire in my heart, the sheer size of their legend created a large dissonance in my mind. What miracle would it take for me to become like them? Then I saw Issa Rae speak on networking across – the idea that the greatest resources you had were the people around you, the people who shared your passion and goals. Those were the people who could propel you towards greatness and help you achieve your wildest dreams. I began to think of how many success stories started out as a simple favour to a friend, or a joint project that probably never saw the light of day....